Worst Times of Life - True Eye Opener

Life is an ocean and you are a boat sailing across it.
Daily you start fresh, ready to face the high tides and small thunderstorms, meet other boats, and learn new things and lessons. You sail pretty well for most parts of your life but there are times when you have to face a Tsunami too. You are hit hard from all sides, drowning in the huge depths of the ocean your boat needs great amount of support and a robust hold from those who matters the most to you.

These are the worst times of your life when you are in no man’s land, looking for those hands which will hold you tight and get you out of the mess. These are also the times which are true eye openers. You have a crystal clear picture of what is your worth and importance in someone’s life, be it your friends, relatives or your partner.

Everyone is busy in their own life, having their own set of problems and responsibilities but if you are their priority, say in case of friends, they will make sure you are back into happy mode, in case of best friends, they will leave no stone unturned to be a pain in your ass till the actual pain goes away, and in case of your partner who truly respects you, your love and relationship, will never let you alone for a second also.

Even there are people who have helped, supported and cared for their just hi/hello friend or even colleague in the worst times of his/her life. I had seen them falling in love and taking the step to spend the rest of their lives together. I used to think how people can have such a big heart and devotion towards a person who is not even their partner or best friend and have sheer amount of respect for them.

But everyone in this world is not that lucky.

There are people who leave their friend/best friend in the midst of the shit when they find a new company to enjoy.

Even there are cases where people leave their partner in his/her worst because they just fell for someone in his/her good.

Love, addictions and fantasies are all same, they only happen when you are willing to go with the flow.
And yes there is something called self control.
If you have self control you will never let yourself divert.
If a person who loves you and the relationship you share with that person is your topmost priority, you will never fall for anyone else.
Today’s world is full of influences, attractions, charms and ecstasies, if partners won’t have self control, not a single relationship in this world would be safe.

Now what about the person whom they left?
That person, who is already facing a Tsunami and is hit from all sides, forgets his/her suffering and pain that life has given and just craves for their support and love. A heart begs, cries and does everything in its power to convince, how much it loves the other heart, but the other stonehearted gives a damn.  

Finally after facing the Tsunami single handily, when the blindfold opens the person thinks was it even worth as in the process he/she also losses lifelong earned self respect, self confidence and the will to love someone again.

The only best part of worst times is they make you strong, determined, focused and help you set priorities in life. You also get to see the true colors of the near and dear ones around you.

There is a famous saying -:

If someone doesn’t love you at your worst, he/she doesn’t deserve you at your best.

I will just rephrase it a bit -:

If someone left you in your worst, that person doesn’t deserve a place in your heart anytime in life though you will be in unconditional love with that avatar of the same person, whom you fell in love with.

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