He and she to “They”: Out of the ordinary

Love is what you never understand

Logic has its own purview. It tries hard to reach its maximum. But she was beyond limit to reach. An apologia for reason to love was beyond her power to conceive. She was too pure to dilute and he was too strong to resist. And they were too complicated to decipher.

She said, “Life is too short to wait for things to happen. It calls for today and give tomorrow its space.”

He said, “Call for action is nothing without a definite day after today. You cannot climb another step if you don’t know the last one.”

They kept on talking. They kept the silence alive too. They were opposites in true sense and nonetheless attracted.

One day, they were walking over the sand on the beach. The sun was about to set. The sky was displaying different colors of red. And so was the conversation between the two.

“Love is just one feeling. Heart has its own boundaries. A whip is needed to make the horse reach its destination beyond boundaries.” said he.

“Infinity is answer to all the limits. Be it love, be it passion. The whip never comes from outside, it’s in your perception.” she replied with glowing eyes.

"Practicality reasons for trigger." he reacted immediately.

"Sustainability reasons for appreciation" she told with same fervor.

The battle was never ending. It started from nowhere and hence sought no end.   

You search for results when you have a question. They never had that. They never will have. It was just about their way to explore.

She believed in perfection with satisfaction. He was on continuous peregrination of perfection. For him, setting the goals and reaching the epitome worked as activator. Always, for anything.

They were near, they were apart. The bond they shared was not easy to comprehend. They complimented each other with aggression and passion. No one was ready to put down the sword. They were at war continuously. They were in love forever. 

They called for action to other’s passion,

They called for reaction to reach the real reason...

They held the hand of love too strong to break,

They got hooked to their true self with other’s vision to brace..

They were too near they were too far,

They were too difficult to be dealt hence to surpass..

5 fundas of life to live it to the fullest..!!

Life is a beautiful journey in which we meet lot of people, some motivate us while some fill us with negative energy, some love us while some hate us , some influence us while some teaches us the hard lessons of life.

Everyday is a new experience, a new chapter of life which unfolds in front of us.
It can leave a negative or positive impact but how to tackle and respond to it depends completely on us. If we only care and get influenced by what others think about us, their opinion, judgement and comments, we will make our life hell and be depressed, sad and feel inferior lifelong.
But if we want to live our life to the fullest, here are the 5 fundas that should be deeply rooted in our soul.

1. Keep Self Respect above everything
    If you don't respect yourself no one in the world will respect you. No matter what life throws at
    you , people leave you in the middle of no man's land, even if you have to stand alone facing the
    whole world, your self respect should always be your first love and priority.

    A person or thing can be important to you but if it hurts your self respect, makes you timid,
    makes you feel inferior and you have to beg for it, let it go.
 
    Developing a strong sense of self respect will help you achieve your dreams, people will see
    you as a worthy person, your relationships will bloom and you will be able to live up to your
    potential.

2. Be Strong mentally and emotionally
    Nothing in this world can conquer you if you are strong mentally and emotionally.
    Be generous, kind and humble, admire people for what they have given to you,
    forgive others and ask for forgiveness for your mistakes.

    Learn how to manage strong feelings and emotions and communicate them properly.
    Don't panic on little things and learn to tackle stressful conditions.

    Don't be sensitive and devote your complete attention to small things people say about you.

    Don't be dependent on someone to such an extent that your life is a mess when that person
    leaves you. Be emotional but don't emotionally cling to someone that there small action or
    talk leaves a big impact on you.
 
    Be strong mentally and emotionally and you will easily sail across the big thunderstorms of life.

3. Be Passionate
    Passion in life is very important. If you are not passionate about anything, you are probably a
    dead soul. Passion brings a sense of purpose to life, you are motivated to work hard towards
    achieving your goal and finally when you taste success, nothing in the world can match that
    feeling of self satisfaction.

    Being passionate requires stamina to bear failures and guts to take risks.
    You have to be always focused, motivated and keep the process of self improvement going.
   
     You can be passionate about your work, hobbies or anything in this world which inspires you
      to go to any extent to shed your blood and sweat for it.


4. Love Yourself
    Nobody in this world loves a person who doesn't love himself/herself.
    Be proud of what you are, take care of yourself and feel happy the way you are.

    Every morning remind yourself of your worthiness.
    Appreciate your talents, hobbies and achievements.

    Accept your mistakes and forgive yourself.
    Go on a self discovery voyage to know yourself better.

    People who loves themselves see improvement in their relationships or the negative one dissolves
    for the beginning of a new one. Even they love others with the same dedication and charm.
   
    So Love yourself as you have every right to be accepted and loved.


5. Don't be someone's option but be his/her priority
    "Never allow someone to be your priority while
               allowing yourself to be their option." — Mark Twain.

     Never give away too much of ourselves for someone who doesn't want to sacrifice anything
     for your sake.
   
     You don't have to convince, plead or force anyone to make yourself his/her priority or feel how
     special you are, if that person consider you as his/her priority it is great, but if they don't, run
     away, you don't have to waste your time on such people.

     Be it any relationship, if you think the other person ignores you or take you for granted, don't
     be afraid to say them goodbye.
   
     Always take what you deserve and in life never settle to be someone's other when you can
     become someone's only.


Live life to the fullest in the present.

The moment that changed my life.!!!

I was born in a middle class family. My father was a doctor and mother was a housewife.
From childhood only people used to call be junior doctor.

I was very happy to hear such comments and used to imagine myself as a doctor.

As I grew older I got more interested in mathematics.
My uncle was a broker and I used to spend a lot of time sitting at his office.
Numbers and graphs used to attract me. Analyzing the graphs of different scripts of share market was my favorite pastime.

One day while I was sitting at the terminal, uncle and his friends were predicting the result of Infosys.
For past 3 quarters Infosys quarterly numbers were below expectation and the stock plunged 7-8%.

This time I had an intuition that Infosys will outperform and the stock will rally more than 5%.
Uncle started laughing at my prediction and told to focus on studies as share market was not my cup of coffee.

I requested uncle to believe in my prediction once and buy 100 shares of Infosys for me.
As I was like a son to him so he fulfilled my wish.

It was time for announcement of result and everyone was glued to the computer screen.
7% increase in profit and 14% increase in revenue were the numbers displaying on the screen.
Everyone was shocked to see the result except me.
I was jumping with joy as my prediction got true and the stock price was up by 6% within 10 minutes

of the announcement of result.

When my father came to know about this he told me to focus on studies and not get involved into share market as it was just another form of gambling. He also stopped my visit to uncle’s office.

My 10^th board exams were in two months so he asked me to focus on science as I had to take biology in 11^th class. I was not interested in biology but had to opt for it as it was my father’s dream to see me as a doctor.

I was a sportsman who used to love playing all kind of sports.
I used to devote two hours daily to some or other game in order to refresh myself after attending boring lectures of biology.

12^th board exams turned out to be a nightmare for me as I failed in biology.
In the next attempt also I could only pass with grace marks.

My parents were really tensed as no decent medical college was willing to give admission to me.

At that time my uncle came to our house and had a talk with my father.

He requested him to let me do what I was interested in which was trading in share market.
He asked my father to give 6 months of time after which he could ask me to do whatever he wants.

I gave some certifications and started working at my uncle's brokerage firm.

In 3 months my skills started showing results and I became the talk of the firm.

After 6 months I was making more profit than many experienced people at the firm.

My uncle called my father to his office and showed my portfolio to him.

My father was delighted with joy when everyone at the firm was chanting my name.
They were congratulating him for having a son like me.

My father had tears in his eyes and he hugged me tightly.
He told me to continue my career in share market and become a successful broker.
It was that moment in my life which filled me with optimism and hope for the future.

Today I am running my own brokerage firm and my father is very proud of it.

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