10 Signs that you are dating a lawyer...!!!

1. She will always threaten to sue you whenever you have a fight.
    Also she can turn a simple argument into "3rd World War".

2. There will be always more talks about different sections in law then different venues to go
     for a dinner date.

3. She will be always be confused whether to marry or not as 70% of the crowd in her profession
    will be single and no time to mingle.

4. She will always have an opinion on everything and if you don't agree to it she will use all
    measures available to prove herself right.

5. If you are even 5 minutes late because of some legitimate reason you will have to listen the music
    as for her punctuality will be above everything else.
   

6. She will always meet you in black & white but it doesn't means that your life will not be
    colorful..;)

7. Her dream destinations will be High courts and Supreme court.
    She will be quite serious and dedicated towards her work and expect the same from yo
u.

8. She will be always busy doing internships in her college days and will hardly go to college.
    If you are an engineer you will feel like you are the most vella person in the world and she
    is the most busy.

9. Always be careful about what you talk as something said casually can also be taken seriously
    and a conclusion can be drawn which you would have never intended.


                         



10. According to her etiquettes and manners are key to a successful relationship.
      More then being a sweetheart she will want you to be disciplined.



                                    

The day when I was with her..

2104 was a good year for me and I expected the same from 2015.

As the year started, the progress of my professional life became stagnant.
New opportunities which were going to come early in 2015 got delayed by months.

I was confused on what steps to take and whom to get advice from.
The tension of professional life was on its peak when a terrible incident happened with me.

I was on my normal routine to office which is in Hiranandani.
I got down at the bus stop where there was a crowd of people.
Out of anxiety I just peeped in to see what was going on.
Live gambling with cards under the bright day light was in progress.
I was not at all interested in it and tried to move away when two of the people there caught me by my shoulder.

I protested and told to leave when a third person took out my wallet and offered my money in the game. When I shouted and pulled him a heavily built man slapped me hard and started abusing me.

I called people for help but none of the passerby even heard a word. I was disappointed and threatened the gang to complain to police. After listening to my words they ran away with my money.

I called my team members who came with me to police station to file an FIR against the gang.
When one of the police officer heard my story he told an agent to accompany us to the spot.

The agent called his source and informed us that only half of the money was recovered.
I took it half heartedly as somewhere I felt that the police was also getting their part from the gang.

My life had come to a halt. Lot of tensions and worries surrounded me.
My family and gf were the only source of happiness for me.

I prayed to god for a smooth life but he had something else in mind.
My love life which was my source of motivation came under hammer.

My gf fought badly with me for events that happened in my past.
She threatened to leave me. I was broken and upset.
This was the moment when I thought my life had come to an end and there is nothing more left in it.

2 days after the day of fight she called. I told her to meet on Saturday if she could manage.
She affirmed and I prayed to god to sort out things between us.

It was Saturday and she came to my flat. I had prepared her favorite pasta and cold coffee.

She was delighted to see her favorite food and the efforts I had put in to make them.
We talked a lot while eating and slowly memories started to pour in.

She kept her head on my shoulder and we cherished the moments that we had spend together.
I showed her the pictures which we clicked on our different outings.

Tears rolled down our eyes after seeing the pictures. We could feel each other’s heartbeat.
Love made its way again slowly inside our hearts. We fell crazily and madly for each other.

All the tensions and worries took a back step as two souls were crazily in love.

Next we planned to watch a movie and booked tickets for “Dum Laga Ke Haisha”.
It was a superb movie which brought even more emotions to us as it showed how two opposite people can madly fall in love with each other. Ours was the same case.

We took a bus from the multiplex to Goregaon station and got another hour to spend together.
My gf loved travelling by bus and I loved it too.

After getting down at the bus depot we went to a restaurant as we were damn hungry.
We had our favorite Chinese dishes which were really yummy.

It was one of the most memorable day spend together.

Though we did nothing special but we really felt the forever, everlasting love for each other.
It was the day when we decided to marry each other, no matter what happens.

I was now a satisfied and happy soul. The regained stability in my love life gave me the much needed strength and motivation to fight against other tensions of my life. I was optimistic that the lady luck will bring the happy days again and I will soon get the opportunities, I deserved.

 This post is written for Housing.com

5 things about your BF you should refrain from commenting on

For a healthy relationship there are lots of tips given to a guy.

Take her to new places, always keep her happy, show care, respect her dreams and family etc etc.

But did someone think what a girl should do and most importantly what she should not for a healthy and strong relationship.

Here are the 5 important things girls should refrain from commenting on 

1. Religion
    In your religion why don't you eat this?

    Why your saints and guru dress like this?

    Why you have all this rituals?

    Well asking these questions once are fine but if you keep on bombarding
    them again and again on
    your BF, he will eventually get frustrated.
    Also never mock about anyone's religion. Remember it’s a weak point of
    most of the people.

2. Hometown

     Would I be able to live in your hometown after marriage?

     I went to one of the cities of your state, it was horrible. Is your hometown
     also same?

     

     Gal, you live in a metro doesn't mean all other cities are like villages.
     Comparing cities like Indore or Nagpur to a village is so insane.

     First visit the place and then start commenting on it,

     Half knowledge is dangerous, mind it.

3. Parents

    As you love your parents the guy also loves his own
    Why your mother does this?

    After marriage I don't know how will I live with her?

    A mother-in-law is also a human being. She loves her son doesn't mean she
    will hate you.
    So put some logic before you ask such questions to your BF. 

4. Mother Tongue

    Apart from English and Hindi there are more than 30 languages in India.
    People love to talk in their mother tongue with near and dear ones.
    Don't mock about it.
    

5. Money saving skills

    And here comes the most important point.
    "He is a Marwadi so kanjus to hoga hi" is so lame.

    Saving is an art which we Indians should be proud of. It is something
    because of which Indians are respected all over the world as it has saved
    them from many global crisis.

    Wasting hard earned money is never wise when you have other options
    available.

    Don't keep on taunting or harassing your BF if he is good at this art. 
    He is doing this only to give you a better future. 
                              

There is a famous proverb "Give respect to get respect"
Follow it.

What if you are 25 and don't have a GF..??

GF is an entity that changes your life.
If you are fortunate enough to find a good one then she makes your life heaven but the other one is also important as she will leave you with long credit card bills, sleepless nights and not to forget a lesson of lifetime.

But what if you are 25, an age when parents start looking for a suitable bride and you don't have someone special in life. Not to forget when you are afraid of arranged marriage,it really gets difficult.

Relationships which are childhood love, school love or college first year love have 90% probability of being successful, but I was unfortunate to find one.

Its not that I didn't try, I tried my heart out, but either I was not satisfied or she.

During school time peer pressure starts from 8th class, not only peer pressure also Parents pressure.
They except you to top the merit , but don't understand that it is also the time when lot of hormone locha happens inside your body.
You start finding girls pretty. The opposite sex attracts you more than anything.

Next comes NTSE. If you get scholarship here, IIT coaching classes will teach you for free.
Also your name will come into newspaper which everyone wants one day.
So again the mind wants you to study but heart wants just the opposite.
It is ready to fall for someone, go mad in love, create new historic love stories.

10th Board is like a war, where your parents, teachers and even friends knowing that you are a small Srilanka will expect you to beat America.

Finally when you feel that now you can relax and go out fishing, parents ring the Career Alert bell.
You are shown the dream of getting into an IIT by coaching institutes and you happily agree to get bluffed.
It's not that coaching institutes are only for studies, many students come for mate matching also.
Fortunately girls here consider you a part of intellectual group and try to come closer.
They call you to parties but for you it is senseless and waste of time as the bhoot of IIT is still big on the head.

Finally the results are out and you don't get an IIT but a decent college.
Now that you are sure that everything is set, you feel it's the right and high time to fall in love.

But where are all the pretty girls gone ?
99% girls are beautiful and rest 1% are my batchmates looks so true and real.

Though there are some charming faces but they demand a high intellect combined with big bikes and even bigger wallets.
Then there are those average looking, only 4-5 times proposed girls who will fall for singing skills, guitar skills and in my case dancing skills.
You think she is the one, your love, your everything but she leaves you in few months, stating it as just an infatuation and nothing else.

Then there is that one girl who will love you like anything. She will always feel jealous when you are with other girl. She will take care of you like a mother, but you won't get satisfied by all this.
Because for you a person has not to be only loving and caring but also interesting and witty to be a partner.
She loves you relentlessly and you finally think of giving it a try.
Well it feels good for few days but then you feel like changing many things.
You tend to give her lectures on almost everything and then follows 24*7 fighting, calling mutual friends and troubleshooting.
Finally when everyone gives up, your relationship comes to a miserable end breaking her heart.

A lesson learnt but after paying a heavy price of losing your best friend.
You take a pledge not to get into relationship with a girl who is not of your type, just to break it in few months.

Internet friends are so common these days and also internet love.
You feel low and lonely after the breakup and make your way to the big virtual world.

After few days you find someone interesting. She seems to be the perfect one, loving, caring, intellectual and also witty. You take no time in falling for her. The first few meets are so amazing that you feel like introducing her to your family, but her different caste factor always keep haunting you.

Few months pass and you tend to feel the difference between virtual and the real world.
The girl who always had time for you on the virtual world, unfortunately can't find much in her real world. She tends to give excuses and things get bitter.
You give your relationship another chance with an optimistic hope of she finding time for you.
But things get really worst when she is not even able to meet you on your birthday.
You don't have any other option then break-up.


Cooperate world beckons and you get yourself immersed into work just to forget her.
Again you take a pledge that you will only think of a girl if she is of your caste as this is your last time and you don't want a World War 3 with your parents.
When you are on the verge of getting great opportunities, she enters your life.
She is of your caste, have great looks, is witty, creative and above all matches your height perfectly.
What more can you urge for ?
You try all the tricks in the world to impress her but this time your love line shows a full stop.
You are being ignored as if you don't even exist.
She gets into an IIM and you are stuck at the same place, also losing those knocking opportunities.


Now you are 25. Parents wants to get you married soon.
Your father's father and mother's mother emotionally blackmail's you every time you talk to them.
Friends are getting married to their long term GF's and when you tell them your desire of having a love marriage, they will infinitely mock at your single status.


Watched 2 states and felt like waiting for some more time, but how long...????
Do you have an answer ? Feel free to suggest..;)