He and she to “They”: Out of the ordinary

Love is what you never understand

Logic has its own purview. It tries hard to reach its maximum. But she was beyond limit to reach. An apologia for reason to love was beyond her power to conceive. She was too pure to dilute and he was too strong to resist. And they were too complicated to decipher.

She said, “Life is too short to wait for things to happen. It calls for today and give tomorrow its space.”

He said, “Call for action is nothing without a definite day after today. You cannot climb another step if you don’t know the last one.”

They kept on talking. They kept the silence alive too. They were opposites in true sense and nonetheless attracted.

One day, they were walking over the sand on the beach. The sun was about to set. The sky was displaying different colors of red. And so was the conversation between the two.

“Love is just one feeling. Heart has its own boundaries. A whip is needed to make the horse reach its destination beyond boundaries.” said he.

“Infinity is answer to all the limits. Be it love, be it passion. The whip never comes from outside, it’s in your perception.” she replied with glowing eyes.

"Practicality reasons for trigger." he reacted immediately.

"Sustainability reasons for appreciation" she told with same fervor.

The battle was never ending. It started from nowhere and hence sought no end.   

You search for results when you have a question. They never had that. They never will have. It was just about their way to explore.

She believed in perfection with satisfaction. He was on continuous peregrination of perfection. For him, setting the goals and reaching the epitome worked as activator. Always, for anything.

They were near, they were apart. The bond they shared was not easy to comprehend. They complimented each other with aggression and passion. No one was ready to put down the sword. They were at war continuously. They were in love forever. 

They called for action to other’s passion,

They called for reaction to reach the real reason...

They held the hand of love too strong to break,

They got hooked to their true self with other’s vision to brace..

They were too near they were too far,

They were too difficult to be dealt hence to surpass..

Love's small note

“Knock, knock” heard the voice and she asked who is at the door?
Voice came from the other side, “hey it’s me, Love, on my way to explore.

She listened to the voice, she searched for the source,
She looked hither and thither, but couldn’t get the course.

Her senses got alerted; she composed herself for the moment,
Now she was all ready to ask for the sudden appearance.

“Why are you here for?” she questioned with great force,
And she was about to get the best answer for the reason of therefore.

Few gentle words came from unknown sides,
Stating the business of the joyride.

I was always there, you just took me for granted,
You sought for the specific, my domain was quite expanded.

I was there in the sips of tea, I was there in those hell of a yippies,
I was there in those twirls of small joys, I was there in those unexpected ahoy.
I yelled at the cause of your cries, I held your hand in all your tries.
I craved for your smiles , I shivered when you went off for a while.

I was always there in my unknown special ways.
Though not typical but definitely there for a longer stay.

 

The two most difficult things in the world

Life is a journey where we meet a lot of people at different phases.
Some give us a helping hand while we are in trouble while some make us realize that we have to rise on our own.
Some motivate us to follow our passions while some discourage us for various reasons.
Some love us selflessly while some confront us with the harsh reality of life that you are needed only until the time you are important to someone.
Some get a place in our heart while some are privileged enough to make it to our ass..:P

Each chapter of life brings along with it a new experience which has its own series of struggles, hardships, success stories and learnings.
A man drives from one experience to another which is the milestone in the journey of life but there are two major roadblocks that slow down his pace.

These roadblocks are actually the two most difficult decisions/things in this world.

The first one is to “Accept one’s mistake and say sorry”.
We tend to make mistakes and hurt a number of people intentionally or unintentionally due to our thinking and actions during the course of our journey. And then comes the most difficult part which is to accept it and say sorry to the concerned person.

But we can’t blame anyone as saying sorry has become outdated.
The coolest thing in today’s world is to be selfish and self-centered.
Emotions, feelings and love are mostly found in the emojis on social media as they rarely make it to the heart.
Being heartless is the new trend in the market; very soon you can wear tees with that written on it.
People love their comfort and convenience even more than their parents, so whoever you are, they don’t care. And if the decisions though taken together affect their comfort and convenience, they will leave you to suffer alone as doing so is part of their morals.
And you dare even expect a sorry from them as thinking like that also is the biggest act of foolishness.

The second most difficult thing in this world is to “Forgive someone”
You can forget a person who has betrayed, used or cheated you but you will never be able to forgive them.
Forgiving a person who has brutally plundered your heart is the biggest act of humanity. 

But in today’s world revenge is considered as the most beloved act of humanity as it is the path to nirvana, that’s what people think, I suppose.
Couple of day’s back I came across these 2 headlines -:
A guy tried to choke his ex-lover in a cab and second, Husband shot the bf of his wife who died later.
And there are number of such cases happening on daily basis where people choose revenge over humanity.

So if a person forgives you for the wrong you have done, you don’t have to say those 3 golden words but just a simple and sober “Sorry” as today the act of forgiveness is very uncommon in common people.

Aaj dil kuch bechain sa hai..!!

Ye ehsaas kuch ajeeb sa hai

Aaj dil kuch bechain sa hai..!!

Kafi dino baad dil ke hile se kuch taar hai

Lagta hai kisi ne dastak di bar bar hai..!!

Dara sahma sa ye dil to bada udas tha

Jaane kis shaks ne lagayi ye nayi si aas hai..!!

Ae dil kya tu sahi mai tyaar hai ?

Is bar tujhe chaut nahi lagegi is cheez ka tujhe vishwas hai ?

Dil bejuban hai par ye jazbat kuch ajeeb sa hai 

Pata nahi kyo aaj dil kuch bechain sa hai..!!

Zindagi ka Safar..!!

Zindagi ka safar bhi,
ek ajeeb khel hai.
Kabhi chamchamati dhoop hai,
To kabhi ghanghor andheer hai.

Kabhi har taraf khushiya,
Aur khilkhilate cheere hai.
To kabhi aankhen hai naam,
Aur akelepan ke dere hai.

Kabhi har jagah safalta,
Aur lakshmi ka vass hai.
To kabhi tumhari kismat hi,
Tumse udas hai.

Kabhi aankho mai nazakat,
Hoton par shararat,
Aur dil mai beintehaa pyar hai.
To kabhi unhi aankhon mai nafarat,
Aur dil mai kisi aur ka darbar hai.

Kabhi lagte hai sab apne,
Aur us khas par khud se jyada vishwas hai.
To kabhi is swarth bhari duniya mai,
Har saksha ke cheere par kayi nakab hai.

Zindagi ka safar bhi,
ek ajeeb khela hai.
Kabhi chamchamati dhoop hai,
To kabhi ghanghor andheera hai.

Ae dil mujhe maaf karna..!!

Ae dil mujhe maaf karna,
Aajkal tujhe samay nahi de pata ho.
Ek samay tha jab mai tujhme hi gum rehta tha,
Par aaj tujhse gum rehta ho.

Jeevan ke is mod par,

Tera mera saath thoda mushkil hai.

Wada karta ho tujhe fir pukaronga,
Par abhi hamara bichadna bahut jarori hai.

Ae dil mujhe maaf karna,
Par tujh par abhi vishwas nahi kar sakta.
Tujhe rote hoye dekh kar bada dukh hota hai,
 Isliye abhi tujhe kisi ke hawale nahi kar sakta.

Tu nadan aur seedha hai,
Dusro ki baton par bahut jaldi vishwas kar leta hai.
Par jab tujhe hota hai dard,
Kya kisi aur ka dil bhi peeghalta hai ?

Ae dil mujhe maaf karna,
Par abhi tera shant rehna hi jaruri hai.
Mujhe pata hai tu bechain hai,
Par tera jo khayal rakhe vo dil milna bhi to jaruri hai.

Mujhe thoda waqt de ae dil,
Tujhe sahi haathon mai soponga.
Tujhse jyada intazar mujhe hai us saksha ka,
Jab milegi vo dilbar, apne dil ka darwaza mai fir kushi se kholonga.

10 facts about relationships..!!

In today’s world being in a relationship is the most common trend.
People fall in and out of love as if it is a dive in river Ganga.
Everyone is in relationship or desperately wants to be in one.

Among all this only 15% of people understand the true meaning of a relationship and
different facts related to it.

Fact 1.
Relationship involves two free birdies who love to spend their time, emotions and feelings together.
None of them is a slave of other and has their own freedoms and rights to enjoy.
A person is in a relationship with you to be happy and not to be in restrictions or bondages.
Give your partner space, rights and freedoms to enjoy and he/she will always love to be with you.

Fact 2
Don’t be a hurt-freak, getting hurt on every small action taken by your partner.
If you will behave like that your partner will feel uncomfortable and restricted in doing anything.
They will have to think twice before having a conversation with you.
Make their life simple and not painful because of you.

Fact 3
It is completely fine for your partner to enjoy with his/her friends.
Don’t become a jealous machine or get loaded with insecurities.
Always remember insecurities kill relationships. Your partner will always know the limit and will
respect the freedom and space they are enjoying with you.
Be a bit possessive but not a chipko.
Show your partner how much he/she means to you. Show your authority but only in a limit.

Fact 4
Don’t be a selfish bag always thinking about yourself.
Your partner has his/her own dreams, ambitions and principles.
Respect them and always make efforts to align them with yours.
Achieving success together is the real spice of life.

Also you are not the only one who is making efforts, your partner is giving equal blood and sweat.

Respect and appreciate their efforts.

Fact 5
Your partner is not a problem solver, he/she is with you to enjoy life to the fullest and live a simple life.
Don’t burden them with your problems and frustrations.
Always try to create a refreshing atmosphere rather than a tensed one.

Fact 6
A relationship is about solving problems and facing difficulties together.
It is not a one person job to do everything and the second person to just enjoy.
Put in efforts to show how much you care and love your partner.
Be proud of have them in your life.

Fact 7
Don’t play the blame game with your partner.
You are responsible for your problems and wrongdoings.
Discuss your problems and seek guidance, but even if the suggestion goes wrong, it
is not the whole and sole responsibility of your partner to make it right.

Fact 8
Don’t be a cry baby.
No one likes a person who is weak and cries on everything.
There will be situations when your partner will hurt you or go on a wrong path.
Be strong, stay there with him/her and give your complete support.

Fact 9
 Be yourself. You are born with your own identity.
If someone loves you he/she should love the way you are without changing you.
Also don’t become so mad for someone that you lose your identity, respect and dreams.

And lastly the most important Fact
Fact 10
A person has come into a relationship with you on his/her own will.
It was his/her decision and nothing being forced upon.
In course of time even if your partner falls for someone else, that is perfectly ok.
Life makes us meet different people and it can be possible that we find someone else
who perfectly suits us.

Respect his/her decision. Don’t cage them with emotional blackmailing and heartbroken messages.
You can’t control your partner, it is completely their decision, what they want to do in life and whom
they want to like.

But yeah one thing you can do is always be with them in their goods and bad.
Be protective and caring and show your complete support. Don’t let anyone take their advantage.
Keep on improving yourself, have trust in your love and faith in god.
If you deserve them, they will always come back and embrace you happily.

Follow these facts before it is too late J

Love is a Game of T20 Cricket..!!

In recent times, T20 Cricket and love marriages are considered to be among the hottest topics in India.
Anti-National and presstitute for sure top the list, but in this post we'll talk about the next two and see how they are related to each other.

PowerPlay (First six overs)
In a T20 the first six overs are where you can score the most, but you have to play smart otherwise you can end up losing your wicket.

Similarly the starting phase of a love life is where one of the partner, mostly the boy, tend to exhibit his skills and score the most i.e. try to impress the girl in the best way he can.
It is the time when he takes risks, couple of good dates (overs) can make him win the girl’s heart, but one mistake can also get him clean bowled.

Mid Overs (From 7 to 15)
In T20 this is the time to build a partnership and lay the foundation for a scintillating victory.
You need to be focused, have patience, bear pain, stay at the crease and keep on trying hard to get the score ticking. Also this is time when you reach milestones and cherish those awesome moments.

In love life also this is the most crucial time. After confessing your feelings to each other and starting a new relationship, it is very necessary to build the foundation for next 2-3 years until you become sure that he/she is the person you want to marry.
There will be crazy fights, sleepless nights and unbearable pain but you have to be at the crease thinking about the milestones your relationship has achieved and living those superb memories spend together.

Final Overs (16-20)
In T20 the final overs are where you need to hold your nerves and use your experience to setup a winning total. Here it is not your caliber but mostly the circumstances that make you lose the match.

In the same way in a love life when the partners are sure about spending their life together, the game goes to final overs when the families pitch in. You need to hold your nerves when convincing them because they will for sure make it really hard for you. Also blame it on circumstances but in some cases, the relationship comes to an end because of them. Things are not in your control and you can’t do anything about it.

The conclusion
Be it T20 Cricket match or love life, once you win, there is a sense of satisfaction, relaxation and accomplishment. You become emotional and thank god for supporting you at the right time.
Also there is lot of love and care, in T20 it comes from fans and in love life it comes from your soul mate.

Long Distance Relationship : The Call

A new series dedicated to the most difficult exam on this earth , "Long Distance Relationship".
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

If you are in a long distance relationship and you love your partner with the same intensity as before, you are a true lover..I salute you.!!!

The most important thing in a long distance relationship is communication.
When you are in different time frames and working, it is really difficult to have the same level of communication, the way you had when you were together.
There will be network issues especially during travelling, family interferences and biggest enemy, loneliness.

But one thing that will keep everything intact is the satisfaction and refreshment you feel when you hear the voice of your partner :)

Expression of Love - Music of my life

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

I can sing day and night for you
Because you are the music of my life.

Expression of Love - Bonded Together

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

Life is a circus.
We keep on swinging from one person to another till the time we find that special someone with whom we are bonded for lifetime. 

Expression of Love - You are my Cinderella

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.

I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

If I am a mountain, you are my peak

If I am Dubai, you are my burj khalifa

If I am Paris, you are my eiffel tower

You are always my crown, my princess, you are my Cinderella.

Expression of Love - The Forever love

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.

I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

The Forever love..!!

Expression of Love - The Cupid Game

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

The Cupid game.

Expression of Love - Rain of Hearts

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

You are my world, you are my life.
I can fly high and touch the sky if you are beside me..!!

Expression of Love - Bowled out

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

Expression of Love - Engagement Ring

A new series dedicated to the most precious & pious thing in this world , Love.
I present to you the beautiful sketches made by dear friend Kavita Maheshwari.

Feel the love, spread it but never harm anyone for it.

11 ideas to surprise her this Valentine..!!

The day of romance, sizzling chemistry and sparks all around has finally arrived.
Yes it's 14th Feb, the day of love which is celebrated all over the world as Valentine Day.

It is a day full of surprises, proposals, red roses, gifts, kisses and some heartbreaks too.
A special day when you make your partner feel out of this world.

So here are 11 ideas from my side for all the he's to surprise their she's this valentine.

1. Pamper your girl on this valentine and book a spa session together.
    Indulging in pure bliss with lots of romantic talks will definitely make her day.

2. Girls love shopping and the best way to treat her this valentine is to sponsor an online shopping

    spree for her. She will definitely treat you with a return gift when her shopping is done ;)

3. Bring her favorite movies dvd home and enjoy the movie marathon together.

4. Girls like long drives and believe me when it is an Audi, Jaguar or BMW she will love it.

    Rent one of those luxury car for a day and make her feel like a princess.

5. You must have captured lots of beautiful memories together in your DSLR or Mobile and now is 

    the time to make a Collage or PPT out of it with some really romantic captions tagged to each 

    one of them.

6. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach is a famous idiom which also holds true for the 

     opposite sex. Take help from youtube and make her favorite dishes. I assure you she is going to 
     love it.

7. Ask your common friends to make a video each, saying something about you & your partner, 
    like how you both look together, how is your bonding and finally describing your relationship in 

    their own words. Make a movie out of it and I am pretty sure your girl will love this surprise.

8. A bottle of champagne, red roses, heart shaped balloons floating around, sensual smelling candles,
    exotic food and some romantic music under the stars.
    All these on a beach or at the rooftop will definitely make her on cloud 9.


9. If she loves visiting orphanages or old age homes, today is the day to take her there.
    Valentine's is not only about loving each other but also spreading that love among those who    
    yearn for it the most.




10. Women love jewellery and when it is a diamond she will have a sparkle in her eyes.
      Gift her a diamond this valentine and she will make sure that the rest of the year is filled with 
      sparks of love ;)

11. Take her to all those places where you guys had your first together.
      Place where you met for the first time, where the proposal happened, your first date venue,
       had the first kiss and the list can go on.


And yeah one free advice, if your girl is crazy about some daily soap celebrity, a cricketer or a bollywood star, this is the best time to find someone rational ;)

                I wish all the lovely couples a very happy Valentine's day. Enjoy the day together.

    

    

2015 a year to remember..2016 a year to get together..!!

2015, you were just amazing.
Every year has it's ups and downs, highs and lows but in the end if things settle down as you wanted then that's the joy of life.

In a bachelor's life there are 4 important things -:
1.Family
1.Love
1.Career
1.Passion

I have placed all of them at spot one as none of them is less important to me than other.
So let's see how the year unfolded.

January brought lot of happiness in our family as my brother and sister-in-law were blessed with a baby boy.
Finally my tag of being the youngest in the family was taken away and I was damn happy.
After he came in our lives all those family tensions and grudges just vanished away.
His smile was enough for everyone to forget their high raised egos and melt down the anger in our hearts. January he will be a year old and I just pray to god to shower more happiness in my family through that pious soul.

Love always comes with pain, is an old saying which is so true.
I have never heard a love story where there was no pain, suffering and anger.
Well actually this emotions are good because they make you realize the importance of your partner in your life and also make you a good human being.
2015 brought us closer than ever, made us realize how deeply we loved each other and that we wanted to live the rest of our lives together. I miss you everyday, every minute. every second.
Long distance relationships are difficult but I am really blessed to have a partner like you who has shown so much understanding and patience. I love you from the bottom of my heart for that and promise to give you all that happiness, love, care, affection and protection which you deserved.

US calling in the month of July though a bit late but finally gave some feathers to my career.
Onsite dream is a dream of every IT guy and mines was finally fulfilled in 2015.

Blogging is my passion and it has given me identify , love of my life, adventures, new experiences, travel opportunities and also money.
It was 2015 when I also accomplished another milestone of my life, i.e. of being a writer. Thanks to Shades Publication for the great opportunity.
2015 was definitely a fantastic year for my blogging aspirations giving them new wings to fly.
It meet new people, connected with fellow bloggers, made good friends, got more respect, love and appreciation as a blogger. Free goodies, invitations to launch events, brand collaborations and a 2 day luxurious trip to GOA are just the add ons.


2015 was amazing, thanks to my family, my love, my friends, fellow bloggers and each & everyone who played a part to make me a better human being.

2016 you me ready because I am gonna be more awesome..;)


Wish you and your family a very happy, rocking, crazy and prosperous new year..!!!!

25th December - A special day in my life

25^th December might just be Christmas for you but for me this day is very special.

It had been 2 years,
a rollercoaster ride.
There were lots of up & downs,
but our love never died.

It was my first time in church
and I only prayed for us.
I was selfish in front of god,
as I wanted our love to grow at XL plus plus.

We had our crazy fights, mad love
and moments of silence.
Our starting was a bit rough,
but with time we became an unbreakable alliance.

Respect, loyalty & truthfulness,
were the foundation of our love.
But at times misunderstandings took centre stage,
giving our actual foundation a hefty shove.

Joy, fear, surprise, anger, happiness, love, confusion, relaxation,
hope & togetherness, I have experienced all emotions with you.
Now I just want to live a life,
where whatever I do, I do it with you.

God definitely has some plans for us,
though I am not fully aware of them.
But in every situation I will always pray for your happiness & success,
because you are my most precious gem.

I was alone, in the wait for the right person in my life.

It was Dec 25th, 2013 when you walked in and filled that place.

Since then I became complete.