Winning..finally explored

WIN  is one of the most powerful word in the dictionary.
Happiness, Excitement, Confidence, Success & Transient Satisfaction, are its close relatives.

Winning carries a different purpose and meaning to different people

Soldier - For a soldier winning is conquering the enemy fort and hosting the flag of his nation there.

Doctor - Defeating lethal diseases to save lives of people is what winning means for this class.

Athlete - Breaking the old ones and setting new records, grabbing the 1st place whenever there on the field
                is what defines winning for them.

Software Developers - Implementing codes which are bug free and gives a hard time to the tester is their
                                      way of winning battles.

Testers - Replacing angry birds by bugs and throwing them at developers to make their life hell is a WIN
                situation for them.

HouseWife - When someone says, Shelaji, your home is so clean, your children are so Sanskari and your
                       husband is so loving , it fulfills her definition of winning.

Politician - The number of times Aam Aadmi gets fooled by this specie defines their winning rate.

Journalist - Bringing the news fastest defines their winning graph.

Manager - Brainwashing people so that they work in the favor of the company and against their own
                   defines his WIN position.


But when I contemplated more and went into profound levels , Winning carried a more deeper meaning to every individual in this world including me.

So I could categorize the scope of my WIN-WIN condition as below

1.Self  -
When my goals are achieved, dreams come true I can say I am winning.
Success & Happiness always accompany me in whatever I do makes me feel I am winning.
When the top position is always reserved for me & there is a race among people to know me better
gives me surety of Winning state.
If the bad me is becoming opaque and the good me is becoming brighter with each day passing, I can proudly say that I am Winning.

2.WE  -
"We" includes all my near and dear ones with whom I can share the winning seat.
Whenever they win the feeling is mutual.

3.Society  -
If members of a society enjoy rights and follow their duties.
There is no Communalism, Capitalism  & division among people on basis of color, region & money.
It is a secure place to live for men, women and others then I will proudly say I am winning.

4.Country  -
Corruption, Poverty, Illiteracy & Unemployment finds no place in my country.
Socially, Economically & Culturally my country stands tall in this world.
Be it Sports or War, we play a fair game , then I can happily say I am winning with my country.

5. World -
If there is peace and equality in this world then in true sense every individual in this world is winning.


Never lose hope, never be depressed , never feel weak and lost.
Because at every moment , you are winning with someone, for someone..:)



This post is part of WINNING for India Today Conclave 2014 contest on Indiblogger

Laughter and me in 66 words

I laugh.. The world laughs wid me
I try I Fail I cry... But I laugh...The world laughs wid me
I feel alone, I breakdown, I need support...Yet I laugh...The world laughs with me
I might die within...Still I laugh... The world laughs with me
I ain't no Hero...But I laugh....N make the world laugh with me

Where darkness meets light in 66 words

Clouds are gathering.. Gloomy silence descending.. Thunder in the offing.. Dark times are arriving.. War is on the cards..The battle cries have begun... All alone in this war... I fight I fail I fear... but i fight harder to stand again... A ray of sunshine cleaves through the haze of darkness..and i survive! A never ending cycle which continues till the end of life !

Death of Independence in 66 words

Family Pressure:
Most are engineers and doctors............ Is it actually what we aspired to be?

Traditional Customs:
Most love someone, Marry someone else....Is that the girl with whom we wanted to be?

Social Hypocrisy:
Most lead a life of an imposter.... wherein real identity remains hidden....Is that really who we are...?

Fake Democracy:
We rejoice the fact that India is independent.....But are we...?

The biggest mistake of my Life in 66 words.

We have always been taught to learn from our own mistakes... but sometimes whatever the consequences we just can't stop ourselves from committing the same mistakes over and over again... No matter how much the pain, how much the agony.....But sometimes that feeling of Happiness while committing the mistake seems to be worth all the troubles......

Celebrating Love- The Biggest mistake of my life.

Life in 66 words...

We love someone..it feels so good...breakup...nothing feels worse...
We make friends...we have the time of our life....we lose them...loneliness haunts u even more...
We trust someone more den ourselves..It gives u strength to live...betrayal by that someone..the pain breaks you apart

....sometimes i wonder whats better being a loner or treading this path of bliss and pain...?

Be Happy, That's all we need..

I don’t know why but people seem to be really depressed these days.

One final year engineering guy when asked about this says,”Students don’t want to go to college,attend useless 1 hour lectures from morning till 4pm,write first period tests(-and flunk),present their project and get screwed by HOD in project review and all. But we are forced to. We don’t even get OD for representing our college in other symposiums. That too if we don’t get placed pressure accumulates from parents side as well. We don’t have girlfriend also. What to do? How can we be happy? Tell me?! ”.
Ok boss,understood. * hugs and wipes his tears *

One IT professional is saying “Life is robotic. Work isn't interesting. Sad to see ladies work late nights. No respect for individuals. Deserving associates are made to stay Off-shore. Parents searching for bride and girls want a guy from Onsite. Where to go?On the whole life is screwed. Society thinks we earn more than we deserve. But can money alone buy happiness? Tell me?!”.

Agreed boss. * hugs and wipes his tears *

Seems like everybody has their own problems to be depressed. But wait. Look around. You have enough money to go around with your friends/chicks or even treat them right? Your parents are happy for you no? Atleast they can go around saying “He is doing engineering/working in XYZ software firm and he is managing everything by himself” right?

To that engineering student,there are few students who would have scored more than you in school but couldn’t afford to study engineering at all. You know? There might be a boy of your age in your college canteen who would clean your table and all right? Why should he do it? Doesn’t he deserve more? He was never meant to work there but he does. Not because he should but because he lacked that privilege. So you are more happier than him right? You definitely should. Forget everything else. Its all secondary.

To that IT professional,did you realize that the guy who prepares filter coffee in your cafeteria is of your age? You are fortunate. Not him. Your birthday treat money would be more than his monthly salary. You go out to smoke right? You remember that lady(she must be 30-35 years old) who sells cigarettes and tea outside campus? Why should a lady of that age sell ‘Kings’ ? Her kids can’t go to school if she doesn’t. Inside campus a lady of same age is sitting in AC and making a team work under her. Why this inequality? Did you realize? You wouldn’t have. If you had,you would never complain about your life. Remember there are a million people still trying to get a job/run a life. Won’t they have a dream to marry a good girl just like you do? Everybody does. Feelings are the same. So tell me,you are more happier than the above mentioned people right?

Happiness lies within. Do what you like. Trust yourself. Fight for it. Don’t be afraid. Forget what others think. Help one another. Be generous. Don’t lose yourself. Lastly,keep smiling (-its the second best thing you can do with your lips).

MAA TUJHE SALAAM..!!

Aapka aanchal hai meri zameen..
Aapka aashirwaad mera aasmaa..
Aap ho khuda se bhi badkar mere liye..
Meri maa..meri maa..meri maa..

Meri har ek zidd ko..
Puraa kiya hai aapne..
Apna har din bhulkar..
Har pal mere liye jiyaa hai aapne..

Mujhe khushiya dene ke liye..
Khud humesha gumo ko gale lagati rahi..
Mujhe chen ki nind den eke liye..
Khudko raato me jagaati rahi..

Mere mann ki hare k baat..
Aap humesha jaan jaati ho..
Hasi ke pichhe chhupe aansuo ko bhi..
Humesha pehchaan jaati ho..

Aapki mamta ka karz..
Me kaise kabhi chukaaunga..
Jo bhi kiya hai aapne mere liye..
Use kaise kabhi bhulaaunga..

Aapke roop me mene..
Dekha hai bhagwaan..
Aap ho khuda se bhi badkar mere liye..
Meri maa..meri maa..meri maa..:)))))))))))

Every Success story is also a story of great Failure

Failure is the highway to success. Tom Watson Sr. said, If you want to succeed, 

double your failure rate.

If you study history, you will find that all stories of success are also stories of great failures. 

But people don't see the failures.

They only see one side of the picture and they say that person got lucky 

"He must have been at the right place at the right time".

Let me share life history of some people with you. 

This was a man who failed in business at the age of 21 ; was defeated in a 

legislative race at age 22; failed again in business at age 24; overcame the 

death of his sweetheart at age 26; had a nervous breakdown at age 27;

 lost a congressional race at age 34; lost a senatorial race at age 45;

 failed in an effort to become vice-president at age 47; 

lost a senatorial race at age 49; and was elected president of the United States at age 52.

This man was Abraham Lincoln.

Would you call him a failure? He could have quit.

 But to Lincoln, defeat was a detour and not a dead end.

In 1913, Lee De Forest, inventor of the triodes tube, was charged by the district attorney 

for using fraudulent means to mislead the public into buying stocks of

his company by claiming that he could transmit the human voice across the Atlantic.

He was publicly humiliated.

Can you imagine where we would be without his invention?

A New York Times editorial on December 10, 1903, questioned the wisdom of the 

Wright Brothers who were trying to invent a machine, heavier than air, that would fly. 

One week later, at Kitty Hawk, the Wright Brothers took their famous flight.

Colonel Sanders, at age 65, with a beat-up car and a $100 check from Social 

Security, realized he had to do something. He remembered his mothers recipe and 

went out selling. How many doors did he have to knock on before he got his first order?

 It is estimated that he had knocked on more than a thousand doors before he got his first order. 

How many of us quit after three tries, five tries, ten tries, and then we 

say we tried as hard as we could.

As a young cartoonist, Walt Disney faced many rejections from newspaper editors, 

who said he had no talent. 

One day a minister at a church hired him to draw some cartoons. 

Disney was working out of a small mouse infested shed near the church. After seeing a small mouse, he was inspired. That was the start of Mickey Mouse.

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a 

great way.

One day a partially deaf four year old kid came home with a note in his pocket 

from his teacher,Your Tommy is too stupid to learn, get him out of the school.

His mother read the note and answered, My Tommy is not stupid to learn, I will 

teach him myself. And that Tommy grew up to be the great Thomas Edison. 

Thomas Edison had only three months of formal schooling and he was partially deaf.     

Henry Ford forgot to put the reverse gear in the first car he made.

Do you consider these people failures? They succeeded in spite of problems, not 

in the absence of them. 

But to the outside world, it appears as though they just got lucky.

                   

All success stories are stories of great failures. The only difference is that

every time they failed, they bounced back. This is called failing forward, rather than backward. 

You learn and move forward. Learn from your failure and keep moving.