Well today im really into a serious mood....i wanted to write on dis topic bt cldnt find approprite time for it..well today my question z..why do people change so drastically...why a pesron whos ur bst buddy betrays u d nxt moment...why z everythng so fake???.....why do we have to show off??...why arnt we loyal to sme1 who z so loyal to us..??..why r realtionships a joke...friendship a means to make our work done nn thn wht we do z jst kick d person off...well its not 100% true..bt in 90% cases things r d same...why have we become so selfish...???? still no ans...
why..sme1 who shares wid u everythng....dont hesitate to call u at 2 in d nite....considers u as bst pal...jst bcz of sme misunderstandings...nn blindly believing sme1 else...jst breaks off wid u...why so??
why a person who whole d year around alwys walks wid u round d corridors of college....shares wid u his personal..clg as well as his love life....things which he hasnt tld any1...fills ur heart wid aversion towards d mst beautiful gal of ur year.....wins ur confidence....makes u addicted of his company..finds another person...lts say topper of d clz nn nxt year u merely get a chance to tlk to him properly???....is dis frndship??
why z it so difficult to find a perfect match...whn u r frnds..a gal behaves noramlly..sme day u consider her as d 1...bt aftr getting into it .. why she becomes so emotional....why r u alwys blamed ...alwys considered faulty....
why a gal who cares for u ...dont get ur attention bcz she z nt so gud looking...
why sme1 who z so true frm heart..a grt human beign makes u fall for her.... bt thn dont know how to express herslf...jst takes evrythng casually...alwys has a excuse for ny favour u want from her...may b shopping..lets say...
why z it so tht sme1 makes u feel spcl...makes u get addicted...makes u dependent...nn at d time of need jst cant get thr...jst cant help u..most oftenly.....
all dis has shaked my confidence to a grt extent and im ambigious abt certain things as like...still can u find a shoulder to cry upon...a hand u can alwys hold nn climb whn ur in trouble...a lap where u can keep ur head and relax like u do at ur home(ur mother)....
thanks to 3 guys.....SAHIL...RAKESH nn PAKKI who have kept my spirits alive..
do u guys have a ans for my WHY?????????????......plz make m know if u have 1..commnets r appreciated so plzz do write wht r ur views regarding dis..till thn cya..have a nice day..
u have raised the right tide baby......
ReplyDeletebut do remember every tide gets destoyed after reaching the shore...so just wait n watch the game...everythng wud b right i believe....
Just wanna say this:-
ReplyDelete"Don't be too fast in any relationship."
May be u know a girl from a long time. But what is important is that what she feels about u, her approach towards things and her feelings. Just don't let yourself flow in any tide.
And than, the most important thing - feasibility!!
Will you be able to be with her for the rest of your life? (family and all).
If you think u cant go against your family, then just make this point very clear to the girl. And one more thing u enter in the relationship is that "don't do anything for which u have to regret". BTW "Best of Luck!! , May God Bless U"
all ques that u hav raised ur blog are correct bt things are nt always the way they seem to be.we often r abt the aspects that the other person might find imp. n bcum inconsiderate.had we been able to put our feet in their shoes, problems wud hav nvr been there.n frndship as u said is nt always selfish. there r times wen u hav to talk to ppl or stay connected to them considering their emotions n admiration,bt it is so only till u can stay patient n unbridled.n at the end such relationships whether love, frndship or watsoever, ultimately dont work. so best solution to this as per me is expect least out of ppl so that each of their gesture surprises u n makes u happy....
ReplyDeleteya wat u have writen is partially correct,bcoz wat i feel is if someone is truly involved in friendship then i think all the other things never matters and even it vary from person to person,everyone has his or her perception of thinking,thatas neds to be changed first.
ReplyDeleteonce a person mix up with someone automatically he gets to know more and more abt him or her and u never know whom u dislike before may start liking actually truly finding his or her behaviour good!
may b not first also but afterwards it actually make him or her realize his or her mistake and those who dont realise r just fools!and such person can never get happiness in their whole life!
when u make friendship with some one..u don't know any thing about him/her..when u r very close to him/her,then u know about him..and ur friendship will improve...and ur expectation from him/her will increase...thats why he/she always blamed on u....this may break the frindship....thats why ...in my view expect less from everyone in friendship..more expectation may affect the friendship...
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