why do people change..???

Well today im really into a serious mood....i wanted to write on dis topic bt cldnt find approprite time for it..well today my question z..why do people change so drastically...why a pesron whos ur bst buddy betrays u d nxt moment...why z everythng so fake???.....why do we have to show off??...why arnt we loyal to sme1 who z so loyal to us..??..why r realtionships a joke...friendship a means to make our work done nn thn wht we do z jst kick d person off...well its not 100% true..bt in 90% cases things r d same...why have we become so selfish...???? still no ans...

why..sme1 who shares wid u everythng....dont hesitate to call u at 2 in d nite....considers u as bst pal...jst bcz of sme misunderstandings...nn blindly believing sme1 else...jst breaks off wid u...why so??

why a person who whole d year around alwys walks wid u round d corridors of college....shares wid u his personal..clg as well as his love life....things which he hasnt tld any1...fills ur heart wid aversion towards d mst beautiful gal of ur year.....wins ur confidence....makes u addicted of his company..finds another person...lts say topper of d clz nn nxt year u merely get a chance to tlk to him properly???....is dis frndship??

why z it so difficult to find a perfect match...whn u r frnds..a gal behaves noramlly..sme day u consider her as d 1...bt aftr getting into it .. why she becomes so emotional....why r u alwys blamed ...alwys considered faulty....

why a gal who cares for u ...dont get ur attention bcz she z nt so gud looking...

why sme1 who z so true frm heart..a grt human beign makes u fall for her.... bt thn dont know how to express herslf...jst takes evrythng casually...alwys has a excuse for ny favour u want from her...may b shopping..lets say...

why z it so tht sme1 makes u feel spcl...makes u get addicted...makes u dependent...nn at d time of need jst cant get thr...jst cant help u..most oftenly.....

all dis has shaked my confidence to a grt extent and im ambigious abt certain things as like...still can u find a shoulder to cry upon...a hand u can alwys hold nn climb whn ur in trouble...a lap where u can keep ur head and relax like u do at ur home(ur mother)....

thanks to 3 guys.....SAHIL...RAKESH nn PAKKI who have kept my spirits alive..

do u guys have a ans for my WHY?????????????......plz make m know if u have 1..commnets r appreciated so plzz do write wht r ur views regarding dis..till thn cya..have a nice day..

my collections...close to my heart thn my gf..hehe jst kidding

Numismatics.....philatelist..r dis words very strange for u??..have u ever heard of them...those preparing for cat and gre mite have..bt not every1..starting wid numismatics...well sme was d case wid m 7 years ago...only till d time i was unaware of what was there in my nanas grandpa safe(tijori)..bt after his death whn it was opened up..i was astonished..nn hell lot confused on seeing wht i saw thr...there were stones lying in a big box..well thts wht i thought till d time i was made to know tht they were not stones bt they were actually coins...money which was used some 300-400 years ago..it was than tht my interest in collecting coins rose...since thn it has become my dearest hobby....i started collecting foreign coins too...my 1st question to a person changed from hey buddy wassp....to..hey buddy do u collect coins..hehe...really insane...im a hell lot crazy abt coins...spclly d rare 1s...its no mre jst a hobby bt a passion for m...i have around 25 countries coins and 6 countries notes..and lot of indian currency...my rarest note z 2 nn half rupee note...dont look agap..its true...in this collection my bro has a major part to play...he was twice mre crazy for it thn im....bt nw his job nn work has made him lose interst..
philatelist...a person who collects stamps...well dis z hereditary...my bade papa used to collect stamps...it got passed to his 2 sons...monu bhaiya nn sandeep bhaiya..nn thn they gave it to us..again i was too delighed to c approx 1000 stamp....old...new..indian..foerign countries..small..big..triangular...i have added upto 250 stamps to d lot hitherto(till date)..
so dis was all abt ankit as a numismatics nn philatelist...if any of u guys or may b ur frnds r into dis nn r intersrtd in exchange...im a only a call away..plz do contact m..this is the link to my coins album

http://picasaweb.google.com/ankitdavv/WinnersVsLosers?authkey=Gv1sRgCIzvz8KC3O_s-gE&feat=directlink

time to sleep....tc..have a grt day..

confront wid my crush

hey guys...happy diwali to all....hope u had a blasting diwali...i too had 1...bt thr z smethng mre ..tht happnd wid m on bhaidoj...
every year a huge aanakot is held at dady's freind place...yesterday was no different till we went to d venue...i was accompanied wid my family...we were searching for empty chairs so tht we can quickly have our dinner.. when i went to wash my hands...man i saw her...wellll ya it ws her...my school time crush...at 1st glance i was nt able to make her out completely...bt again we passed thr nn dis time i was sure..it was her..well i was all excited..at d sme time nervous...was vry confused wht shld b my nxt step...i looked all around bt she wasnt thr..i thought i lost her...bt thn my eyes went in d direction of d bid gate of the ground where aanakot was held nn was relieved to find her standing a few steps away frm d gate...i was in 2 minds whtr to tlk or not...i donno wht happnd..i calld by bro nn tld him d whole story..he rebuked m..nn said ho gayi CAT teri...well all courage i gatherd...sab pani mai mila diya..still wid sme hope i turnd to look at her nn to m surprise she ws cmng towards m...finaly i calld her ******....she lookd at m nn wid perplex expressions said...ankit..ohh ankit jain...hmm...gud memory mam..i was happy...we had a general conversation...kya kar rahe ho aajkal...whts nw..whts all happening..nn itne mai my bade papa cme to accompany m wid him...hehe nn i said 1 min plz...so embarassing yar..nywys i askd her whtr ur on orkut...sme common frnds of ours...bt hell she was nt on orkut..bandi ne account hi del kar diya yar..finnaly finding no othr means to get in touch wid her...i askd for her no..nn to my astonishment she gave it widout any reluctance...i was again vry happy...well i gave her a miss nn went towards my cousins who were bsy giving m miss calls..i hate tht grin which all had on thr face...i msgd her....w8ng for d rply....lts c...

its all about attitude..d way u c d things..

hey guys here comes d 2nd post...nn as i said earlier we ll c how does a winner perceive things differently from a loser...
i have studied different opinions of great personalities..nn wld b presenting thr thoughts..opinions..along wid mines...
Becoming a winner is no baby’s work but becoming a loser is something anyone can do..

Have you ever thought that what is the difference between a Winner and a Loser?
No..?, then i am going to tell the difference..bascily its all abt attitude.so lts c it in 18 simpe points

The Winner is always part of the answer;
the Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program;
the Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
the Loser says, "That's not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
the Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
the Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, " I was wrong";
when a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

A Winner makes commitments;
a Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
losers have schemes.

Winners say, "I must do something";
losers say, "Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;
losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
losers see pain.

Winners see possibilities;
losers see problems.

Winners believe in win/win;
losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;
losers see the past.

Winners choose what they say;
losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments, but soft words;
losers use soft arguments, but hard words;

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners make it happen;
losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation...

well with this node i end d second post and d topic of winners vs losers...nxt time i ll b describing abt my journey as a numismatics...i believe not all of u mite b knowing abt dis...

tl thn a vry HAPPY DIWlALI to u nn ur family..njoy... have a blast...tc

Finally I'm also into d world of blogging...really wanted to start dis early...but jab jago tabhi savera..so here im wid my 1st blog....winners vs losers..a topic on which evry1 ponders upon once in his/her life....
ech 1 of us wants to b a winner a virtuoso...successful in evrythng 1 does....bt z tht possible always..well a biggggggg.....no z d ans....though we r quite reluctant in believing dis fact bt thts ture..really??? lts c..
At many times..we got dis feeling pinching us tht we have failed at many occasions of ur life....is tht really so??? have we failed in othrs eyes or in ours own???...lts look for d ans....

Starting frm schl..
all had expectations tht bande ko 85% to aane hi chahiye...we used to give our bst nn used to score smewhr around 75%..so we were satisfied...bt r we really not a loser in othrs eyes...those who have scored an aweosme 90..

moving on..
we wanted to b a rock star....bt due to peer pressure..parents desires...we went into a professional field...say engg..aajkal badi common hai..hehe..we somehow completed our job nn gt placed in mnc..bt is tht really wht u wanted...r u a winner??...really?? or a loser on ur part...think..

ab ye to sab ki life mai hoa hoga...
u like a gal/guy...she/he z ur crush...u become friends...as time passed both of u got along really well nn finally u proposed...if ur rejected..r u a loser??..bullshit..in any case no man..
nn lts take those cases whn proposal is accepted nn u get committed..nn aftr 6 months...u get dumped...so does tht makes u a loser???....u get depressed..hopeless...bt has ur world come to a halt..z dis d end..dont u think u deserved mch better thn dis....sme people commite suicide bcz of dis..to m dis z an act of loser..

d bottomline z u consider urslf a loser bcz othrs thnk so...nt bcz ur insight has dis feeling...perform deeds to become wht u want and not wht othrs want u to become..nn whn u achieve ur goal. ur target..ur a winner....a true survivor indeed...
so guys make it happen for u..nt jst lt it happen...c ur potential nn not othrs past...do wht u njoy..nt wht othrs get joy in..u cant become master of all...so dnt get dishearted whn u lose out on1...
winners dont create miracles..thy jst do things at d rite time...

wid dis node..i ll end my 1 post...hope u njoyd it..nxt post ll b on d sme topic throwing light on ways a winner and a loser think for d sme...
tl thn gudnite...shabakher....sayonara...tc